Self-confidence is formed in the family. Parents can help a child develop an adequate self-esteem, and unfortunately, they can also destroy it. We want our children to grow up confident and happy, so we have gathered phrases to say to a child daily — they will help them become more confident and positive. “Good morning!” This is the first thing a child hears in the morning, and it sets the tone for the entire day. If you smile and say these words in a way that the little one believes in a good morning, it will create a positive mood for the whole day. And if you hug them too, this morning will truly be a good one. By the way, your mood will improve as well, try it and see. “I love you” These simple words can be difficult to say. It’s surprising, as it is pure truth. Perhaps it’s due to strict upbringing that restrains the expression of feelings. “Thank you” A sincere “thank you” is an important word. Maybe the little one brought you their favorite toy or helped clear the table. Any action your child took to make you happy deserves gratitude. Just one “thank you” from you will be enough for them to feel happy. “I’m proud of you” It doesn’t matter what for. Maybe they learned to flush the toilet after using it or brushed their teeth well. Your acknowledgment of their success, even the smallest one, will help them gain confidence that they are wonderful. And they truly are! “You can do it” Every mom often says what not to do. But the phrase “You can do it, you will succeed” is heard much less often. Your support will help the child understand that they are capable of achieving anything they want. After all, they have you! “You are smart” It’s easy to feel insecure among peers who may be true prodigies. Your praise will prevent the child from doubting themselves. “You are so smart” is important when they correctly assemble a pyramid or complete their homework. It warms them and gives confidence in their abilities. “Shall we play?” Parents don’t always offer this to their children. Yet, it brings them more joy than any cartoons. Your attention is a great happiness for a child! It strengthens their confidence that they are loved and that they matter. “You are the best” Everyone makes mistakes; no one is perfect. Don’t think that the little one isn’t upset by their own failures. Let them know that despite all the mistakes, they are the best for you. “What good happened today?” A simple question that will help the child focus on the positive and end the day in a good mood. It’s important for them to understand that you are genuinely interested in how their day went, what worries them, and what occupies their thoughts. “Good night” “Sweet dreams” — this phrase combined with gentle hugs will remind the little one how much you love them and how you cherish the time spent with them. Feeling loved day and night is a dream.
